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So this first step we're going to cover how do you get the girl to respond to your opening message. This comes from my own personal experience because when I first started using tinder the majority of my matches would not respond and it was very frustrating but luckily I had a friend who was just crushing on tinder and he gave me some great advice and that's what I'm going to share with you.
Before I took this advice the vast majority of my matches were now responding, so this is great advice that's really helps me and make sure you follow this all way through because we're going to have some great examples of great first messages and how they really spark the conversation and get the girl engaged straight away.
How To Start A Conversation On Tinder
So the first key to getting the girl to respond to your opening message is to write something specific to her. Girls are not stupid they know when you were copying and pasting the same message and sending it to all the different girls.
It's very transparent they can see straight through it so what you want to do instead is you want to have a look at their pictures read their bio and write something specific to her.
I'm going to show you an example now where I've done exactly that. I've looked at her pictures I read her bio written something to her and because it's written specifically for her it has a lot of impact and it engages her straightaway.
The second key point On How to start a conversation on tinder is to make the girls smile from your opening message. If you can make the girl smile she knows that she's gonna have a good time talking with you on tinder and getting to know you well as if you send a really boring first message she's gonna think it's boring getting to know and boring talking to you on tinder.
Why should she bother? So for that reason, we should always be aiming to make the girl smile with the first message.
Three Ways To Make A Girl Smile
The first one is to say something smart. Again this involves looking at pictures on her profile and making some kind of clever connection.
Second way is to say something funny so again look at the pictures the description how can you be funny here now okay I'm going to be honest with you you may struggle with it how to be funny from looking at the pictures and the description and my only advice to you is to keep practicing keep doing it.
Sometimes you're going to hit the ball over sometime its going to be a miss and the more you do it the better you get at it and the more you realized oh that went really well that time I said that I can say something similar to here and the third way that you can make a girl smile is by saying something self-deprecating where you're essentially mocking yourself.
Maybe you see the girl doing something and you know you can't do that so you're making a joke about how you could never do that. I'm going to give you an example here where I'm being self-deprecating and I can tell that it's very entertaining the girl really enjoys my self-deprecating sense of humor.
The third key point to an effective first message on tinder is to keep it short and concise. It may seem counter intuitive but when you write a long waffle e paragraph it has far less impact than a short and concise sentence. It's also very feminine to talk in large waffle e paragraph since far more masculine men talking short and concise sentences.
If you think about the James Bond for example as you know he's an icon. He is very masculine and very cool. He have a lot of impact when he talks and one way he does this is free short and concise sentences. If you think about his typical phrase of shaken not stirred. That sentence could not be any shorter and we want to take this style of sentences that have a lot of impact and we want to use that with our opening tinder message.
In this example I'm being particularly short and concise and it's very effective at having a lot of impact.
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How To Start A Conversation On Tinder