Every Guy's Two Greatest Fears
He is itching to read this article, but you would never catch him doing it, and he definitely will not admit to wanting to know if he deepest and darkest secret are all out in public. In the backyard. In the center of a busy highway.
I bet he won't tell you, but I will spill the beans.
He will not dare share with anyone.
But first things first:
First this isn't a completely list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggiest one.
Second, I am not saying this so you can bust him out. The only reason I am doing this so you can help him out. But you would have to be clever, so he doesn't find out. Be kind to your man – he worship the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your deep dark secrets also.
On to the juicy details, shall we?
GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are not okay
You know that guys won't way more sex than what women won't but that is not actually true. Women they want it just as much as guys do but under different circumstances. He just want it. Every which way he just imagine. With your mom, sister, next-door neighbor, the teenager with the skimpy outfits own.
Sex movies of every description(festish,bondage, multiple lovers) it run in his brain at all times, and sometime was showing on the screen shock even him.
Down in his soul he is horrified that he won't sex way too much, with the wrong people, or in the wrong ways. His sex drive is out of control, and is a testament to his power that he doesn't let it drive his life, only his brain.
Every Guy's Two Greatest Fears
Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less secure about he is sexual desire. I'm not suggesting that you do everything that come to his mind, but be willing to to talk about his fantasies and dreams. Tell him to give you all of the juicy and steaming details. Even the act of sharing and listening can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.
Show him how to make you the star of his fantasies mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay or sex.
Last but not least, don't forget to let him know that you are satisfied sexually! If you can manage to do this, he's going to become so fired up by you he would never won't to let you go. Every guy wants to know that he can satisfy a woman sexually in all ways.
GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I am weak
The mens in this world you got to feel for. They are expected to make us feel secure and wanting, bring home the bacon, and a steady paycheck, outdo the other guys, support the winning team, be hard, overcome all of the obstacles in their way, push away all the bad guys, never show fatigue, fear, or anything except sheer strength and confidence.
That's a lot to live up to.
It's impossible to live up to, actually.
And yet that's the challenge they hear every day. And if they don't answer it actually dominate it there fear is that they will be publicly shamed, despise, humiliated.. Not so much by other women or by you(although they hate the idea that too), but by other MENS.
But that doesn't mean YOU don't have power. Every man wants a woman that is on his side through thick and thin. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of the men.
How Can You Help Him
I have a question for you: If he's fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear you genuine support for him, are you enthusiastic?
I'm not saying you have to be a cheerleader on the sideline, but there is a way to let him know you're saying how hard he works, and you want him to be a winner.
Encourage him to talk about his problems. Soak up everything like a sponge. Ask for all of the details. Don't be doing any other thing. Give him your undivided attention, your full focus. Be his number one fan.
Offer him your sincere admiration. How strong you find him, let him know. Let him know how amazing his accomplishment and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you're going to ADDICT him to you.